Welcome to all of my new followers! I am very excited to have you tag along on my crazy journey that is life, staying healthy, and training for my second marathon!
Today, training officially starts. An easy 3, but it went from being 60 degrees on Saturday to a blizzard last night, but I am excited for the crisp run tonight.
I had a pretty amazing weekend, spending time with friends and family. It was one of those weekends when you just sort of get a glimpse of life and what it is all about.
Friday night we went out for a drink to celebrate the birthday of a close friend. I was welcomed into a pretty close-knit group of people when I began dating Paul, and I am constantly reminded how lucky we are. These people quickly went from being “my boyfriend’s friends” to my friends as well. The women are intelligent, funny, beautiful inside and out, and supportive. The men are just as wonderful. I know they aren’t brothers to me, but they would do anything to help or protect any of us if we needed it. I don’t know how I got so blessed to have such amazing people in my life, but I am pretty happy that it has turned out that way.
Saturday, I went to a funeral for one of the dearest, most wonderful men I have ever known. I didn’t know him very well, and often only saw him once a year, but he was just one of those people. He was genuine, caring, and lived and loved life to the fullest. I actually knew him through my aunt. I have gotten to know her good friend over the years, Karen, who was in a 13 year, committed, loving relationship with Larry (the deceased). Karen is one of those people who instantly became one of my favorite people upon meeting her. She is spunky, hilarious, and just beams with energy and joy. She and Larry were phenomenal together, just a wonderful example of how to love and enjoy life.
I am not a crier, but I sobbed my way through the service. It was honest, heart-felt, and beautiful, and Karen was a beacon of strength, smiling through tears, delivering a beautiful eulogy, but still beaming with love and positive energy. I am so thankful that I was able to meet Larry and have people like Karen in my life as examples of “how it is done”.
Saturday concluded with drinks with a dear friend of mine, Krista, (before I took her to her surprise party 🙂 ). It was her 30th birthday, so we had some girl time to properly send off her 20’s and kick off her 30’s. Krista is another amazing person. She is one of the most genuine, loyal, honest people I know. She has no agenda, loves you for you, and will tell it to you like it is without any sharp edges at all. It is fun seeing a friend start a new “phase” in their life, not to mention it is watching them stumble into their living room only to realize that 20 of their nearest and dearest are there ready to scare the shit out of them :).
All in all, a pretty great weekend. I hope everyone has friends like I do, because at the end of the day, I can’t help but think that that is really what it is all about.
Love to you 🙂